so just found out one of my best friends from school just went to jail. 6 months as far as i know. he just got arrested today though so he hasent gone to court yet. he got picked up for "beaten the shit outa a kid who was pissen him off"
idk what to do. hes gona get kicked out of school, and his parents arent gona bail him out.
hello depression, we meet again...
but im fine, just dont think it was a good time to relapse...
Peace!
And So It Goes (2014)
9 years ago
4 comments:
Sorry about your friend, but this is a good example how the things you do can adversely affect your life. You must always consider the consequences before you decide to do something.
hang in there, Peter... I know it's a tough thing when a best bud gets in trouble... the consequences of his actions ripple out in all directions, affecting his victim first, then his future, then his family, and then, his friends and the community around him, who have to find a way to deal with this kind of thing... It's not easy. Noone I know, wants to see a young guy in jail. It's a tragedy on many levels. But, like Brian said, there are consequences born from this chaos that now your friend MUST deal with.
I hope you can put this in it's rightful place, Peter, and move on with your life. If you can, it might be helpful to your friend to send him a short note, telling him that you care, or make a visit at some point, to let him know that he's not all alone. If he has these problems that you tell me he does, he needs real help in the form of treatment and a strategy to help him in the future to avoid this calamity... Better now, than later. I hope he gets that help- it's not a good way to live, always wondering what can push that button...
Nonetheless, you have a lot good going on in your own life, and you need to keep focusing on that!! Take tons of pictures!! I know that Brian, for one, is nuts about pictures!! lol He takes a camera just about everywhere he goes, and that includes when he flies!! And, most guys are visually oriented, anyways!! So, I'd love to see what you can do!! Maybe post some of them here, like you have, since most of the guys don't have Tumblr accounts...;P luv, U.T.<3
Aww, man, what a bummer. It's a shame his temper is going to cost him in such a bad way. It's also a shame his parents don't seem to be standing behind him. Jail is no place for a young person, though I don't know his history, so perhaps the parents are at the "tough love" level of dealing with him. It doesn't make it any easier on you, though. Just remember, as much as you probably don't want to hear this (though I know you know it), he brought this on himself. Keep being his friend, he sounds like he needs level-headed people on his side.
Just keep heading in a positive direction. Friends tend to follow the leaders in any group, and when he does get out, he'll be more likely to do well if he's following people who have loftier goals than kicking someone's butt cause they pissed him off.
Try not to dwell on it all. Unfortunately, there really isn't much you can do, except be there when he returns.
Peace <3
Jay
just stopping by to see how you're doing, Peter... Hope things are good!! luv, U.T.<3
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