ok, so this girl i work with, i think i mentioned her in the last post, who is my bosses doughter, likes me. she was talking to my sister and saying things like
"my parents wont let me date anyone more than 2 years older than me, but i think theyd be ok with your brother" (she thought i was 17)
or
"i think if a friend asked me out, i'd say yes"
and she texted me after work and asked if i was working tomorrow. i said no, and she said i should text her if im board tomorrow.
FML!!!
if she askes me out, and i say no, her dad (my BOSS) would hate me. and things at work would be awkward as hell.
if i say yes, im just playing her, id feel bad, id be a bad influence, and her dad could still hate me.
ill just try to ignore her until school starts back up and then im home free. i think she will work at this job again next year, but im hoping ill find another job.
oh yeah, im a parking attendent. i dont think i ever told you guys that haha
Peace!
And So It Goes (2014)
9 years ago
3 comments:
Having gone through something like this before, albeit without the "boss" situation, I will say don't date her. I felt bad for a girl who liked me and started dating her. We stayed together for 2 1/2 years because I didn't have the heart to stop the relationship and crush her, but I realize now I shouldn't have let it go on so long. You have a chance her to stop it before it starts. If she asks, politely decline her offer to date, but say you could still be friends. It may or may not work, but it's the best thing to do in my opinion.
-Anthony
yeah, this is a bit of a problem... I had my entire family trying to set me up with a beautiful, sweet girl that had a crush on me... I really liked her too, but, not in that way, and understood that it would be unfair to her to pretend otherwise... My stupid family wouldn't give up, tho, and, it all came to a head at dinner one night, where I told them all to leave me alone, and, refused to eat with them, and went to my room instead... That stopped them, but, the word filtered back to her, somehow, and, it was really awkward after that... I wish to this day, that they had just stayed out of it...
Anthony is right... don't get into the maze of dating her... it will just lead to pain for you and her, too... Tell her that you aren't dating until you reach 18 or something (a little white lie to spare her the pain) because of religious beliefs... Yeah, I know you're laughing, kid, but, she's not likely to pursue it after that, unless she decides to convert you, or something, and, it will buy you some time...
This is all assuming that the question is even asked... If you play it cool, or sic her on a needy friend, you are probably going to be safe anyways!! luv, U.T.<3
Anthony, dang, 2 1/2 years. i know what you mean though. that was me in my last relationship. i just wanted friendship, but she wanted more. i thought if i broke things off with her, itd just be awkward and we wouldent be friends anymore. well turns out, were really close still. that girl was/is Megan.
Tman, im sorry. haha i hope the awkwardness has passed by now. idk if religion will be my excuse, but ill think of somthing. thanks!
Peace!
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