ok, so those word may not fit together the best, but read the post before judging
also, this will probably be a long post because chances are, i wont post tommarrow, and i dont know if ill be able to post friday, and that being said, the post on the weekend will be short to, so this will have to do =)
ok so i dont know if i've told you guys, but i have a sister. she's 19 and has inspired me to become the person i am today. when we were younger, we never got along, but the day my parents told us they were getting divorced, we became really close.
we both knew the day was coming, and neither of us were upset with it, but neither of us wanted to be in the awkward house. she had just gotten her licens, and she told me to get changed, and we were going driving. i dident know where, and she really dident eather, but we just wanted to leave.
so we start driving, and my sister asked me what was down that road. i told he thats how you get to the next stat, and she turned onto it. we ended up going into the next state, and finding an outlet mall thing. so we shopped, bonded, and sence then, we've been close. that was the day i found out she drank. that was a big point in my life because, as i said before, she was an inspiration, and like 3 months later, i started drinking. not much, and i still dont, but it was a cool thing to exchange stories of what we did on the weekend.
so thats my sister and i's storie. no it will lead to the next point, philosophy. i originaly created this blog to help me explore both my sexuality, and my philosophies. so far, i've really only focused on my sexuality. now my sister because a huge philosophy fan, and i did to (haha told u she inspired me). well both of us think the exact same, and are more inteligent then most people. im not bragging, but most people dont like our jokes because they make you think, and we really are more intelectualy mature in the way that we think about hard questions.
so i gues its hard for me to conect all 3 points, but they will leed to eachother.
so my philosophy of true love. i dont belive in it, and it makes absolutly no sence to me. i understand how people could belive in it, but i cant. im an athiest (against my parents wishes) and i dont think we were "made for eachother." if you are looking for true love, you will be let down constintaly. i belive that we can love poeple, but we dont have a true love. this is another way religion has destroyed society. most people hold out for that one person, and chances are, they will never find them!
the thought of one person spending ther whole life with another one person is unrealistic. Heraclitus (an ancient philosopher) once said "the chain of wedlock is so heavy that it takes two to cary it-and sometimnes three." why cant people realize that sex is not love, but pleasure. if i was straight, and marries a woman, i would want her to realize that if i have sex with another woman, its not because i love them, but its new, and pleasurable. idk, i guess im just fed up with hearing my girl friends (2 words) boy troubles. ok ill stop ranting and let you guys get on with your lives =) PEACE!!!
And So It Goes (2014)
9 years ago
4 comments:
Wow, young guy... You have raised so many questions about VERY important issues, so there's not enough room here to address them all at one time, but I think that they are SO important to your happiness, they should all be addressed... The most important suggestion that I can make to you at this stage in your life, is to keep an open mind AND heart about these things...OK-
The things that affect us in life are numerous, and change us, sometimes in small ways, and sometimes in huge and detrimental ways. One of the legacies of your parents' difficult marriage may be, for you, your interpretation of love and the issues about the existence of God, or for that matter, happiness for you in this world. I'm not blaming you for the things that have happened to you in this life, but I will tell you that the way foward, will increasingly become your responsibility since you are on the road to manhood... There is no way to change your parents divorce or the things that they taught you or didn't teach you about love or a loving God, for that matter. I can only offer my opinion and support to you and try to show you a different side to life, a side that can lead to happiness for you and a opportunity to take control of the things that lead to happiness...
There is NO reason to feel that there isn't love for you in this world. You experienced the love a sister has for her brother, and it surprised you a bit, because you weren't that close before... It happened at a difficult time, and you were hurting and needed someone to talk to, just like your sister did. There are all kinds of love in this world and if you will take the risk of being hurt, you will find love... That doesn't mean that it will take the form of someone else's experience, that's the beauty of it!! Love is unique, and what you make of it... All the cute sayings about it (and there are millions), can't describe it perfectly for you... If you believe in love, and desire it, you will find it!
As far as sex being purely about pleasure.... Wow, if you really come to believe that, you will be in for a life of loneliness... Without love, sex is a short term release of tension and you don't need a partner for that! But, if you want to feel the wonderful human connection that is the result of love, you can't shut your mind to the possibilities... You are human and deserve to experience real sex and real love, which starts in the brain and settles in the heart...
I know that your life has been difficult, kid... Try to forgive the people that have caused you pain, shelve the chemicals (they will make things more difficult for sure...), and take life by the horns.. It's all out there for you, but you have to want it... I know, that you deserve it...
thanks tman. you know, im open to my philosophies changing, but at this point in my life, i dont know that they will for a while.
I know, kid, it's a lot to understand or even think about... well, sleep tight, have a great Friday! luv, tman<3 and a big hug for you too!
thanks =) always make me smile!
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