hey guys, i gota go soon, so ill tell you what my dad did. we were at dinner and i was telling him how its normally for people with learning disabilities to get very frustrated with there parents after school. he said "oh maybe thats the reason your mother wants to move to (blank) after you graduate, to get away from you"
so that just pissed me off.
last night i had dinner with my dad and his girlfriend. ill tell you about that later.
Peace!
And So It Goes (2014)
9 years ago
4 comments:
Ok, so I don't know about your relationship with your dad/mum, and I'm sure he meant it in a nice/joking way ... but if it upset you then he should have realised thsi and appolagised. It sounded like a hurtful comment and was uncalled for. But as I said, I don't know the relationship, so I don't know how he meant it to be interpeted. Stay stong and we're all here for you. Even if you just want to rant lol.
Jack xx
I can see how that would make you feel pretty bad. I agree with Jack, feel free to rant here, you know we're all behind you, and it won't hurt our feelings...and if it will release the badness so you feel better, well good!
Hope this doesn't ruin the Christmas spirit! I watched National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation this morning, looking for something else now!
Peace <3
Jay
well, kid... people say dumb things all the time. That doesn't excuse the remark that he made, but, that's why there are words like, "I'm sorry" to repair the bad feelings left by a stupid comment. From time to time, we all find ourselves misunderstood or on the wrong side of one of these... I hope he knows that he hurt you, even if it was probably meant as a joke... Once the words are out there, and they have injured someone, it should be obvious that an apology is warranted, but, you know, Peter, some people are a little thick- skulled, and don't understand the impact of their words.
I hope the rest of the dinner went better than that!! luv, U.T.<3
Hi there, Spys
I read your post, and immediately thought that your dad's comment was at best thoughtless, and quite possibly cruel. Then I saw the comments suggesting it might have been a joke - which I guess is quite possible; writing it down strips out the tone of voice which would have conveyed this information. Nevertheless it doesn't sound to me like a suitable subject for a joke.
*hugs*
Mark
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